Be prepared:

• Get to the courthouse at least 30 minutes early to find parking and your courtroom.
• Bring change for the parking meter.
• Dress neatly. Do not wear shorts, tank tops or hats.
• Do not bring children. Most courtrooms do not allow children.

When you are in court:

• When the courtroom opens, go in and tell the clerk or officer you are present. The clerk usually sits next to the judge’s bench.
• Be calm and polite to everyone.
• Turn off your cell phone.
• Do not chew gum or bring food or drinks into the courtroom.
• Stand up when the judge enters or exits the courtroom. Stand up when you talk to the judge, unless you’re in the witness stand.
• The judge may not call your case right away. Wait patiently. If you have to leave the courtroom, tell the clerk where you are going.
• If friends or relatives come to court with you, ask them to follow these rules, too.

When the judge calls your case:

• The judge will have you raise your right hand and swear to tell the truth.
• You will need to give testimony to finish your divorce. Some judges will ask you questions. Other judges will want you to read a “script” of testimony. You can find sample scripts – called “prove up testimony” – at www.TexasLawHelp.org. Read the script ahead of time. Make sure everything in the script is true for you.
• When talking to a judge, call the judge “Your Honor".
• If the judge asks you questions, wait until she or he finishes speaking before you speak
• Tell the truth and don’t exaggerate. Give complete answers.
• Say “yes” or “no” out loud. It’s not enough to nod or shake your head.
• If you do not understand a question, say, “I don’t understand.” If you do not know an answer, say, “I don’t know.”
• The judge will listen to what you say and review your papers. If everything is in order the judge will sign your proposed order or Decree.